{"id":244,"date":"2006-11-10T11:11:02","date_gmt":"2006-11-10T17:11:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/benpollock.com\/brick\/index.php\/2006\/11\/10\/you-dont-say\/"},"modified":"2006-11-10T22:14:11","modified_gmt":"2006-11-11T04:14:11","slug":"you-dont-say","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/benpollock.com\/brick\/2006\/11\/you-dont-say\/","title":{"rendered":"You Don&#8217;t Say"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Two people on Thursday asked me the same question, not just topic but exact words. If I had a more public job &#8212; not a computer-glazed copy editor &#8212; or had more friends with whom I had more frequent contact, getting the same question twice in one day might be less surprising. This was odd.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>So, Ben, what was the reaction in the newsroom to Tuesday&#8217;s election results?&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Friend one, male 30s, was in the morning, basically at home in Fayetteville. Friend two, 40 or so years older than him, was at her home, 30 miles away in Bella Vista, in the afternoon. [Down, Paranoia, down boy; no way do they know each other and planned the attack. Heel; good dog.] I said:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>There was no reaction. We  went around doing our jobs into the night Tuesday and again Wednesday.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Their responses were the same, dramatic but quiet surprise, their raised eyebrows begging elaboration. That they seemed to accept. What answer did they expect? Do they think newsrooms have better water cooler conversations? Do they believe the newsroom sets built in TV studios are really like that?  Do they believe the press indeed are all liberals and filled that cooler with champagne? [<a target=\"_blank\" title=\"Time to Abolish the Editorial Page? by Eric Alterman\" href=\"http:\/\/www.thenation.com\/doc\/20061127\/alterman\">A related essay<\/a>] My elaboration:<\/p>\n<p>I have been in newsrooms on election nights a long time, November 1980 was my first one, when Reagan won. In this respect they&#8217;ve all been the same: There is no roundtable. We&#8217;re all working and we&#8217;re all tired. What conversation exists is over the numbers so far and precincts reporting, and why such-and-such results aren&#8217;t in yet. The Wednesday after also has a sameness: Everyone acts hung over. We&#8217;re joking just enough to get along, but the night people foresee another hard evening because the Thursday paper will be more complex with further data, reversals and comments, and the day people simply were up past their bedtimes.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Nothing?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;OK, Wednesday afternoon, somebody wondered aloud if Donald Rumsfeld had quit as secretary of defense two weeks earlier, would the GOP have picked up any more seats and would it have been enough to keep their majority.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Yes, that was me, who spoke. Another editor grunted that was a good question. None answered the rhetorical question to convey opinion. And we went back to our comma correcting. -30-<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Two people on Thursday asked me the same question, not just topic but exact words. If I had a more public job &#8212; not a computer-glazed copy editor &#8212; or had more friends with whom I had more frequent contact, getting the same question twice in one day might be less surprising. This was odd. 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